I am not making this up. This actually happened.
She: "I struggled during my first year in this job."
I: "Why was that?"
She: "A lot of it had to do with class."
She: "For example, some of us went out for dinner one night, and the restaurant was much nicer than anything I could afford as a graduate student."
I: "But that's nice!"
She: "Well, it confused me."