Just to be clear, conservative red states aren't as successful as liberal blue states. So her opinion is completely ridiculous and archaic.
So, in your opinion, it should be:
Don't bother to get married before you have children and if you marry, have no problems divorcing. Education is for nerds and you don't need it for gainful employment. Be lazy and do the minimum necessary for your employer or client. Don't be a patriot. Don't be neighborly, civic-minded or charitable. Always coarse in public. Don't be respectful of authority. Drugs are not that bad.