How he ended up that way, and how you can avoid the same fate
A 30yr old insel introduced himself to me at the bar this weekend
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Spot on reply:
“The fact that we even still refer to these modern antisocial loner types as #insels implies that secks is the most important thing for them to accomplish.
The skewed projections of misguided adults do more to atomize these people and keep them in their vicious cycle.”
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Yeah, that is true. Basically what society is saying is that your number one priority in life is hav/ing se/ckt with a woman and if you cant do that then you should be sha/med relentlessly and you should work on yourself. It's a purely femini.ist perspective because femini/ist use s/eckt to gain power over men.
Spot on reply:
“The fact that we even still refer to these modern antisocial loner types as #insels implies that secks is the most important thing for them to accomplish.
The skewed projections of misguided adults do more to atomize these people and keep them in their vicious cycle.” -
"Society" is not saying that. Literally ins3ls are the ones that day this the most frequently
society is saying is that your number one priority in life is hav/ing se/ckt with a woman and if you cant do that then you should be sha/med relentlessly
Spot on reply:
“The fact that we even still refer to these modern antisocial loner types as #insels implies that secks is the most important thing for them to accomplish.
The skewed projections of misguided adults do more to atomize these people and keep them in their vicious cycle.”
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yes it is
"Society" is not saying that. Literally ins3ls are the ones that day this the most frequently
society is saying is that your number one priority in life is hav/ing se/ckt with a woman and if you cant do that then you should be sha/med relentlessly
Spot on reply:
“The fact that we even still refer to these modern antisocial loner types as #insels implies that secks is the most important thing for them to accomplish.
The skewed projections of misguided adults do more to atomize these people and keep them in their vicious cycle.”
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"Society" is not saying that. Literally ins3ls are the ones that day this the most frequently
society is saying is that your number one priority in life is hav/ing se/ckt with a woman and if you cant do that then you should be sha/med relentlessly
Spot on reply:
“The fact that we even still refer to these modern antisocial loner types as #insels implies that secks is the most important thing for them to accomplish.
The skewed projections of misguided adults do more to atomize these people and keep them in their vicious cycle.”
Liar
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Yeah, that is true. Basically what society is saying is that your number one priority in life is hav/ing se/ckt with a woman and if you cant do that then you should be sha/med relentlessly and you should work on yourself. It's a purely femini.ist perspective because femini/ist use s/eckt to gain power over men.
Spot on reply:
“The fact that we even still refer to these modern antisocial loner types as #insels implies that secks is the most important thing for them to accomplish.
The skewed projections of misguided adults do more to atomize these people and keep them in their vicious cycle.”
Bingo
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is being geeky and anxious (I am one of those) the same as being an incel? why not just find a female equivalent (I did)?
Because the “female equivalents” reject their “male equivalents” (your little fable notwithstanding)
I don't know, maybe I am old fashioned, but just being a decent person who can (after initial nerves) make conversation should go a long way, right?
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is being geeky and anxious (I am one of those) the same as being an incel? why not just find a female equivalent (I did)?
Because the “female equivalents” reject their “male equivalents” (your little fable notwithstanding)
I don't know, maybe I am old fashioned, but just being a decent person who can (after initial nerves) make conversation should go a long way, right?
It should. It doesn’t
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is being geeky and anxious (I am one of those) the same as being an incel? why not just find a female equivalent (I did)?
Because the “female equivalents” reject their “male equivalents” (your little fable notwithstanding)
I don't know, maybe I am old fashioned, but just being a decent person who can (after initial nerves) make conversation should go a long way, right?
It should. It doesn’t
ok, will take your word for it, guess things have changed (haven't really been on a date in about 15 years)
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ok, will take your word for it, guess things have changed (haven't really been on a date in about 15 years)
Ah, that explains it. Yes, things have gotten dramatically worse since social media took off (not that I’d say they were good in the beforetimes, which I’m old enough to remember)