I have a Ch1nese phd colleague who used to talk trash about the West non-stop. He refused to join lunches with the rest of the department (we are a European school so the faculty phd and professors lunch together). In fact, him and other Ch1nese phds from other department formed their own lunch club where they went together to another cafeteria.
He came to the Christmas dinner with the other ch1nese phds who proceeded to complain how this was "foreigners' festival and not theirs".
Now after 6 years of terrible research, he didn't get any US or European flyouts and is heading back to China.
He finally joined one of our drinks and then presented his takeaway from this experience: I was meant for a top US school but rac1sm kept me from my goal.
His fellow Ch1nese phds nodded along in agreement.