How much more expensive is a college education nowadays, relative to what you’d expect to make at a first job? Same question for housing.I am a parent of millennials. They don't own homes, or have what I had at their age. But, it is different choices. I lived much much poorer than they are willing to and took on considerable debt to acquire stuff and raise them. Price adjusted, they make at least as much as I did. But, they took longer to finish school, don't acquire durable things, live in an expensive apartment, spend lots on expensive things, particularly at bars and eating out. Nothing wrong with that, it is a fine choice. But, the point is, it is a choice.
Dirt cheap. Commuter state schools charge 8-12k in most states with generous fin aid on top of that. Many such schools graduate students with average debt in the 500-2000 range. It's your choice to go private residential.
Nobody wants to hire someone from a commuter state school