I'm going to my first bachelor party in a few months, and I have no idea whether grooms-to-be cheating on their fiances is common or just something from the movies.
I'd really like to know what to expect so I don't appear any more hopelessly naive than I already do.
I'm going to my first bachelor party in a few months, and I have no idea whether grooms-to-be cheating on their fiances is common or just something from the movies.
I'd really like to know what to expect so I don't appear any more hopelessly naive than I already do.
Gay orgy. no homo.
not that there's anything wrong with that.
I really hope it's not the norm, but I'm 23 so haven't experienced one yet.
OP here. This is basically where I'm at too.
I really don't know how I'd react if I knew my friend was cheating, but I'm trying to come to terms with it happening so I don't flip out if/when it happens. It just seems like such a weird ritual.
I have been to about 10 bachelor parties, and have never seen anything like what any of the other guys described, at least not from the groom-to-be. These guys are normally really focused on what is about to happen and being married to a woman they love; don't forget that most guys who get married are doing it because they really want to.
The other guys at the party though, some of whom are single, and some of whom are unhappily married, from them I've seen plenty of this kind of behavior.
I'll add a coda to this post. In my experience, most grooms-to-be don't actually give a shlt about their bachelor party, and are doing it more for their friends and their friendships, not because of the party itself.
I have been to about 10 bachelor parties, and have never seen anything like what any of the other guys described, at least not from the groom-to-be. These guys are normally really focused on what is about to happen and being married to a woman they love; don't forget that most guys who get married are doing it because they really want to. The other guys at the party though, some of whom are single, and some of whom are unhappily married, from them I've seen plenty of this kind of behavior.
I've been to three bachelor parties, including my own.
At mine, I just got regular lapdances, which my fiancee (now wife) knows about and doesn't mind.
One of the other guys did the same thing at his bachelor party.
The third guy got a BJ from a stripper (in the back room, we didn't watch). I thought it was disgusting that he would do that, but he looked really happy afterwards.
Well, since you have a "fiance" rather than a "fiancee," you are obviously gay, and, heck, we heteros know that you gay guys are just totally promiscuous, so of course you will be expected to cheat on your fiance at your bachelor party. Heck, you might do something really outrageous and cheat on him with a woman.
Well, since you have a "fiance" rather than a "fiancee," you are obviously gay, and, heck, we heteros know that you gay guys are just totally promiscuous, so of course you will be expected to cheat on your fiance at your bachelor party. Heck, you might do something really outrageous and cheat on him with a woman.
(guy who can't read too good)
By the way, make it clear to the best man and other guys what you are willing to do, and don't get shamed or bullied into having a girl rub her vagina all over your face, or whatever, if you don't want that. Also, just tell the girl "I'm fairly conservative, so just do a and b but not x and y." Most strippers are good at customer service and will be happy to stay within your limits.