Or do they simply not care?
Do women not realize that it is exponentially harder for most men on dating apps
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They don’t care because they don’t realize the matching problem is a two way street. They’re destined to be alone but don’t realize this.
if they're alone then there are also the same number of men alone
Men know this. Women deny it.
I have never seen anyone denying it. The point is that women have a threshold, below which they would rather be alone.
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They don’t care because they don’t realize the matching problem is a two way street. They’re destined to be alone but don’t realize this.
if they're alone then there are also the same number of men alone
Men know this. Women deny it.
I have never seen anyone denying it. The point is that women have a threshold, below which they would rather be alone.
Get a HVM, level up, etc etc.
Irrationality distilled.
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It is not obvious to me that women have it better on dating apps. Would you tell your sister to just go get a husband on bumble? Obviously they get more matches, but if 95% of your matches are at best compulsive liars and at worst serial killers what is the strategy here?
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Why would they care? These men can always improve themselves for it to get easier
I think this is one of the major misconceptions. You think if you take an average dude, clean him up, take some nice photos, say the “right” things, he can succeed. Truth is he still mostly can’t.
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Why would they care? These men can always improve themselves for it to get easier
I think this is one of the major misconceptions. You think if you take an average dude, clean him up, take some nice photos, say the “right” things, he can succeed. Truth is he still mostly can’t.
But he can. You’re just wrong and too bitter to fix yourself
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Why would they care? These men can always improve themselves for it to get easier
I think this is one of the major misconceptions. You think if you take an average dude, clean him up, take some nice photos, say the “right” things, he can succeed. Truth is he still mostly can’t.
But he can. You’re just wrong and too bitter to fix yourself
Exactly. Plenty of average looking dudes hitting above their weight for a variety of reasons (money, success, being fun, working out, etc)
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It is not obvious to me that women have it better on dating apps. Would you tell your sister to just go get a husband on bumble? Obviously they get more matches, but if 95% of your matches are at best compulsive liars and at worst serial killers what is the strategy here?
And if 100% of the statistics above are fabricated out of thin air, what is the point of comment?
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Why do women never consider self improvement on their side?
They do. They spend time with make up, skincare, pedi/manicure, gym, nutrionist, taking care of their hair, perfume, shaving, etc.
By doing this, they reach a point that they can hook up with men they are interested on. No need to go above that.
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Why do women never consider self improvement on their side?
They do. They spend time with make up, skincare, pedi/manicure, gym, nutrionist, taking care of their hair, perfume, shaving, etc.
By doing this, they reach a point that they can hook up with men they are interested on. No need to go above that.Yeah that about balances out with (money, success, being fun, working out, etc)
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The irony is that men who get women are often deeply flawed- inveterate, pathological liars, cheaters, narcissists. As they say, "absolute power corrupts absolutely." I am talking about the guys who have harems juggling 5 attractive girls at any one time.
these are the guys that women select- the whole trope about work on yourself, be a man of integrity is pretty comical tbh.
The only things I could see that work are focus on making a lot of money and lifting weights for a lean athletic build.