bros we gotta work on our d1ck game. for AMerica
Gonna be hard for you. Even if you jam the ruler into your pelvis you aren't even 7" standing up.
Trust me I know. Dont even lie
Half of women are now childless at thirty for the first time ever: Official stat
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This is good news. Every metric on human flourishing shows we all do better when women are more educated and have less babies. Only in/cels on online forums do worse. Though that is even arguable since they are already so unhappy, nothing could make them feel worse.
This is why we have to devalue useless "education". It is displacing the far more important activity of replenishing the human race.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-10447507/Half-women-childless-thirty-time-ever.html
Most women in England and Wales no longer have a child before they are 30, official figures show for the first time.
An Office for National Statistics (ONS) report found 50.1 per cent of women born in 1990 were childless by their 30th birthday.
It is the first time there has been more childless women than mothers below the age of 30 since records dating back to 1920 began.
A third of women born in that decade had not mothered a child by the age of 30, for comparison.
Women born in the 1940s were the most likely to have had at least one child by that milestone (82 per cent).
But there has been a long-term trend of people opting to have children later in life and reduce family size ever since, the ONS said.
The most common age to have a child is now 31, the ONS estimates based on latest data, compared to 22 among baby boomers born in the late 1940s. -
There are four main reasons why I, a 28 year old engaged woman, am not yet 100% sold on having kids. 1) The physical aspects of giving birth and nursing simply disgust me. 2) Childcare is too expensive. 3) My career is extremely important to me and will surely suffer. 4) Kids are a lot of work and I don't actually want primary responsibility for them.
On the other hand, I would love to be a father with a stay at home wife.
To his credit, my fiancé has been willing to entertain the idea of him staying at home. But he doesn't want to give up his career either and overall we're just not mentally ready for kids yet.
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There are four main reasons why I, a 28 year old engaged woman, am not yet 100% sold on having kids. 1) The physical aspects of giving birth and nursing simply disgust me. 2) Childcare is too expensive. 3) My career is extremely important to me and will surely suffer. 4) Kids are a lot of work and I don't actually want primary responsibility for them.
On the other hand, I would love to be a father with a stay at home wife.
To his credit, my fiancé has been willing to entertain the idea of him staying at home. But he doesn't want to give up his career either and overall we're just not mentally ready for kids yet.I felt the same way about 2,3,4. I ended up having kids in my mid-late 30's. Now I wish I had them sooner. International travel and a high-flying career are a lot of fun. Raising kids is also fun, just a different kind of fun. When they are older I am sure I will be able to go back to those kinds of other things too.
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There are four main reasons why I, a 28 year old engaged woman, am not yet 100% sold on having kids. 1) The physical aspects of giving birth and nursing simply disgust me. 2) Childcare is too expensive. 3) My career is extremely important to me and will surely suffer. 4) Kids are a lot of work and I don't actually want primary responsibility for them.
On the other hand, I would love to be a father with a stay at home wife.
To his credit, my fiancé has been willing to entertain the idea of him staying at home. But he doesn't want to give up his career either and overall we're just not mentally ready for kids yet.You don't need to tomorrow. If you're going to have two kids, you can wait a couple of years+ and still not be in any hurry about spacing. With your concerns, the best thing you can do is get in a position where you can afford a lot of child care. If you have family that can help, live near them.
Birth and nursing are such a small part of it. You don't have to nurse if you don't want to. Even the baby part is such a small fraction of time. If you don't want your career to suffer, you really can throw money at this problem in all kinds of ways. Meals. Cleaning. Living in a place that minimizes commute time.