Yeah, I would give up being in the cool club just to be myself. So much more worth it than being anxious if the people around me like me or not. Like the person said, be okay with yourself, and the right people will find you.
OP, I really think most people in the profession don't care about cultural stereotypes. Plus, the few westerners who think they're too cool for Asians are people no one would want to spend a second with. At any rate, the most important thing in life is to be yourself.
A white and western colleague.