You have to watch gay men holding hands and show no disgust. You have to agree that it is not a problem if your young daughter dates outside her religion.
Perhaps this is for the best.
In Canada we allow BJP Hindus who hate Muslims, who treat white working-class people like Dalits, who are ethnocentric and racist as slaveholders in the US south . . . we welcome them in Vancouver and Toronto with all their money and let them spread their hate. If they have money, they can hate all they want.
BJP bros need their own integration tests, to show that they can tolerate people who are not like them, to show they are not anti-Muslim or anti-poor. You don't get servants and Gujarat style pogroms here. If you don't like it, go back to Kolkata.