The problem with well educated White women is the best looking ones are conservatives and married or single leftists with a chip on their shoulder because of a string of bad romances.
Lost all motivation as an Asian American male
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Asian American bro here. It is definitely tough and I admit I get frustrated with society creating all this disadvantages for us especially in academia. I think the best thing we can do is to better assimilate with the one group of people who are speaking in our favor. White cons3rvativ3s. We don't do ourselves any favors by overwhelming joining the other side that literally doesn't care about us. As for women, I'm married to a white American girl. The key is to first be confident in yourself and look for the girls that are open-minded. Let's face it, we are really at the top in many ways when it comes to husband material. We just have to make ourselves attractive to them. Plus, many white parents would prefer their daughters marry us than other non-whites.
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You only have yourself to blame for this. I've witnessed many times where asian faculty expect more from asian hires and less from others. The disparities in the marriage market also wouldn't be so lopsided if you guys didn't place such a premium on finding a white partner. Stop playing victim and wake up.
I didn't qualify for diversity admissions, nor will I qualify for diversity hiring. I know I got underplaced in undergrad and PhD thanks to my skin color. People view my hard work as mechanical. Women think I'm awkward. Media doesn't give two iotas about me; see NYT article on how "Asians aren't discriminated." Idiots think I'm some ccp spy when I'm not even international, let alone Chinese. The only thing I have is my own work ethic, which recently has evaporated because 1) dating apps aren't friendly to Asian men, 2) the party that supports affirmative discrimination, liberals, are all over media spouting their nonsense. Are there no perks to being an Asian in America?