39. New baby, night feedings, older kid on the spectrum, wife wracked by anxiety and depression, sex 3 times in the last year, paltry merit raises not keeping up with cost of living, not willing to put in the hours to go for full, learning to embrace deadwoodness, grants being not funded, seeing older faculty retire and die and realizing how deeply fleeting local academic fame is, having to pee more often than the wife, no ED, being able to lift more weight than ever, graying hair, finding deep love and meaning in kids, suspecting that NPR and the NYT might have an agenda of their own, wider age range of women unconsciously considered acceptable as partners. Can’t complain.I've never been married (or even lived with a gf) but why not just ask for more sex? I would like to get married but stories like this depress me. Is it just due to babies?
Whats ur fav food? Eat that for 2 mo in a row.. is it still ur fav food?