ulrm loosing hoap in academia....op hrm?
What other skills did you need to learn to make yourself more attractive for industry?
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I am lower mrm PhD wise. I have a reasonable amount of social skills, and come from a math, econometrics, and stats intensive research field of Econ. I was not great at coding by any means but could code in R, Stata and a bit of Python. I think its mostly about leveraging the skill set you have and trying to transition it. For example teaching helped with public speaking and general social skills. Its also about trying to optimize the stack of things you have or can acquire quickly.
I stopped everything for 6-8 months. All the papers I was writing, all the grants I was applying for, I taught with minimal effort possible to not raise red flags. I only told 1-2 of my junior colleagues I was getting out. Now I know how mormons feel when they leave the church! The look on their faces...
I wanted out! If you want out, you have to make the commitment and beef up the skills asap or transitions the ones you got. If you are an aspie, read books/vlogs on how to "fake" being good with people, if you such at coding, spend all time coding and reading about coding. Again its about optimizing your skill stack. Not everybody starts out with the same stack. This is life.