they learned (the hard way) that age is very weakly correlated with a woman's emotional maturity
Real reason for why 40s guys go for as young as possible
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40s guys are old and they realize their mortality. Hair is falling off, bald spots. Belly fat not going away. Back problems, knee problems, shoulder problems.
Trying to get a 20s or 30s woman os their way of trying to hold on to youth which is in the rearview mirror.
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40s-bro-going-for-as-young-as-possible:
1. Their emotional maturity is negatively correlated with age. Try dealing with stressed, bitter women in their 30s/40s.
2. You develop a more refined sense of aesthetics and notice physical flaws in older women, flaws to which you'd be oblivious when younger.
3. If you're confident, projecting success and 'experience', younger women swoon for you. They are easier to get than when you were younger.
4. You have no idea how many young women have daddy issues/fantasies.
So my sage advice to my younger EJMR bros: if you're not happy with your current circumstances in your 20s, look forward and have faith. You have two decades to turn that ship around. What joys await.
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40s guys are old and they realize their mortality. Hair is falling off, bald spots. Belly fat not going away. Back problems, knee problems, shoulder problems.
Trying to get a 20s or 30s woman os their way of trying to hold on to youth which is in the rearview mirror.W/e, you're still an old run through cow
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40s-bro-going-for-as-young-as-possible:
1. Their emotional maturity is negatively correlated with age. Try dealing with stressed, bitter women in their 30s/40s.
2. You develop a more refined sense of aesthetics and notice physical flaws in older women, flaws to which you'd be oblivious when younger.
3. If you're confident, projecting success and 'experience', younger women swoon for you. They are easier to get than when you were younger.
4. You have no idea how many young women have daddy issues/fantasies.
So my sage advice to my younger EJMR bros: if you're not happy with your current circumstances in your 20s, look forward and have faith. You have two decades to turn that ship around. What joys await.Are you writing this from the beaches of Pattaya?
Are you on a registry back home?
40s guys on the scene are old and gross.
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40s-bro-going-for-as-young-as-possible:
1. Their emotional maturity is negatively correlated with age. Try dealing with stressed, bitter women in their 30s/40s.
2. You develop a more refined sense of aesthetics and notice physical flaws in older women, flaws to which you'd be oblivious when younger.
3. If you're confident, projecting success and 'experience', younger women swoon for you. They are easier to get than when you were younger.
4. You have no idea how many young women have daddy issues/fantasies.
So my sage advice to my younger EJMR bros: if you're not happy with your current circumstances in your 20s, look forward and have faith. You have two decades to turn that ship around. What joys await.Are you writing this from the beaches of Pattaya?
Are you on a registry back home?
40s guys on the scene are old and gross.Not as gross as your blubber rolls
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A well adjusted 40s man should be at home with his family.
Unless he's a widower, he's a failure in some way.I was thinking about 40s guys with 40s ex-wives who look to found a (new) family
honestly, my only criteria are kindness, intelligence and good skin (don't want any 38 yo career lady)
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40s-bro-going-for-as-young-as-possible:
1. Their emotional maturity is negatively correlated with age. Try dealing with stressed, bitter women in their 30s/40s.
2. You develop a more refined sense of aesthetics and notice physical flaws in older women, flaws to which you'd be oblivious when younger.
3. If you're confident, projecting success and 'experience', younger women swoon for you. They are easier to get than when you were younger.
4. You have no idea how many young women have daddy issues/fantasies.
So my sage advice to my younger EJMR bros: if you're not happy with your current circumstances in your 20s, look forward and have faith. You have two decades to turn that ship around. What joys await.I'm imagining a 40-something Napoleon Dynamite penning this masterpiece.
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Sorry, lady. It is biological, hardwired into us as animals.
20 year olds have fresh oocytes.
It is about reproduction. Attractiveness is hardwired to make us seek out the fittest reproductive partners.
You don't have this. You did, but you didn't value that, and now it is gone.
Get over it, you have your career, it will keep you warm at night.
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Also women who have reliable natural instincts know how to leverage their power at different stages of their lives.
When they are in their 20s they secure a mate, they reproduce with him, this bonds their partner to them for life. It becomes very costly for him to leave, and he is more likely to stay for pair-bonding love reasons after she becomes infertile.
When they are in their 40s and beyond they become matriarchs and expand their power politically within and beyond the family with their experience and wisdom. Nancy Pelosi's career trajectory is a good example of this principle in action.
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A well adjusted 40s man should be at home with his family.
Unless he's a widower, he's a failure in some way.That doesn't sound fun. I would rather be spending my time inside young women.
What about your thinning hair?
Did you get a hair transplant yet?you are talking about constraints, I was commenting on preferences
that said, some 40s men have no grey hairs
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Also women who have reliable natural instincts know how to leverage their power at different stages of their lives.
When they are in their 20s they secure a mate, they reproduce with him, this bonds their partner to them for life. It becomes very costly for him to leave, and he is more likely to stay for pair-bonding love reasons after she becomes infertile.
When they are in their 40s and beyond they become matriarchs and expand their power politically within and beyond the family with their experience and wisdom. Nancy Pelosi's career trajectory is a good example of this principle in action.are you implying women use power to get attractive mates?? I am shocked, shocked
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Sorry, lady. It is biological, hardwired into us as animals.
20 year olds have fresh oocytes.
It is about reproduction. Attractiveness is hardwired to make us seek out the fittest reproductive partners.
You don't have this. You did, but you didn't value that, and now it is gone.
Get over it, you have your career, it will keep you warm at night.Written like a sex criminal lol