Sure, my wife used her power - not office power, not political power - but the kind of feminine wiles and graces that Victoria and Elizabeth had to woo me, and I succumbed, and succumb every night to her wit, intelligence and charm. I also support her career and hope she goes into politics, she has raw talent and could make the world a better place.
Real reason for why 40s guys go for as young as possible
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Sure, my wife used her power - not office power, not political power - but the kind of feminine wiles and graces that Victoria and Elizabeth had to woo me, and I succumbed, and succumb every night to her wit, intelligence and charm. I also support her career and hope she goes into politics, she has raw talent and could make the world a better place.
bad example: neither of them had children (not a typical "family")
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40s-bro-going-for-as-young-as-possible:
1. Their emotional maturity is negatively correlated with age. Try dealing with stressed, bitter women in their 30s/40s.
2. You develop a more refined sense of aesthetics and notice physical flaws in older women, flaws to which you'd be oblivious when younger.
3. If you're confident, projecting success and 'experience', younger women swoon for you. They are easier to get than when you were younger.
4. You have no idea how many young women have daddy issues/fantasies.
So my sage advice to my younger EJMR bros: if you're not happy with your current circumstances in your 20s, look forward and have faith. You have two decades to turn that ship around. What joys await.Thanks for writing. You don't know how much this matters to me.
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Sure, my wife used her power - not office power, not political power - but the kind of feminine wiles and graces that Victoria and Elizabeth had to woo me, and I succumbed, and succumb every night to her wit, intelligence and charm. I also support her career and hope she goes into politics, she has raw talent and could make the world a better place.
"Men" have no idea how whipped they are.
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40s guys are old and they realize their mortality. Hair is falling off, bald spots. Belly fat not going away. Back problems, knee problems, shoulder problems.
Trying to get a 20s or 30s woman os their way of trying to hold on to youth which is in the rearview mirror.And yet EJMR clowns continue to deny life ends at 30
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Sorry, lady. It is biological, hardwired into us as animals.
20 year olds have fresh oocytes.
It is about reproduction. Attractiveness is hardwired to make us seek out the fittest reproductive partners.
You don't have this. You did, but you didn't value that, and now it is gone.
Get over it, you have your career, it will keep you warm at night.20 year old women should be with 20 year old men for genetic fitness of the offspring.
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Sorry, lady. It is biological, hardwired into us as animals.
20 year olds have fresh oocytes.
It is about reproduction. Attractiveness is hardwired to make us seek out the fittest reproductive partners.
You don't have this. You did, but you didn't value that, and now it is gone.
Get over it, you have your career, it will keep you warm at night.20 year old women should be with 20 year old men for genetic fitness of the offspring.
Who cares about all of that? 20 year old women should be with me because I want them
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Sorry, lady. It is biological, hardwired into us as animals.
20 year olds have fresh oocytes.
It is about reproduction. Attractiveness is hardwired to make us seek out the fittest reproductive partners.
You don't have this. You did, but you didn't value that, and now it is gone.
Get over it, you have your career, it will keep you warm at night.20 year old women should be with 20 year old men for genetic fitness of the offspring.
Who cares about all of that? 20 year old women should be with me because I want them
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Sorry, lady. It is biological, hardwired into us as animals.
20 year olds have fresh oocytes.
It is about reproduction. Attractiveness is hardwired to make us seek out the fittest reproductive partners.
You don't have this. You did, but you didn't value that, and now it is gone.
Get over it, you have your career, it will keep you warm at night.This insell was really passionate when he wrote all this. Hope springs eternal that he will land a woman someday lol.
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Being attracted to a woman in her *twenties* is pedophilia? Lots of oddballs on this forum…
If you are in your 40s, you could be her dad. Don't be the creepy old guy.
Tom Brady is 45 and he looks young enough to date a 22 year old.
If youre gonna date much younger, at the very least stay in shape and try to look your best so people dont stare.
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they learned (the hard way) that age is very weakly correlated with a woman's emotional maturity
The 40-yo men who go for 20-yo women are the ones who are emotionally stunted. Women generally mature faster than men emotionally, but these men are extreme cases in that they can only relate to undergrads.
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they learned (the hard way) that age is very weakly correlated with a woman's emotional maturity
The 40-yo men who go for 20-yo women are the ones who are emotionally stunted. Women generally mature faster than men emotionally, but these men are extreme cases in that they can only relate to undergrads.
If a woman is single after 25, there's something wrong with her. If she's single after 30, there's something very wrong with her.
Stop getting mad that men want to win the dating game and get the best option for themselves just like women do.