is the female version of ins3lz.
both groups of miser/able people who blame others instead of working on themselves.
Re.ddit female dating strategy
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sure there are elements that are positive. choosing to not date awful ppl is good for any gender.
but yes, so much of it is just complaining and focusing on the other person. that's my point. none of it is about self-improvement.
FDS has some good advice ('have some self-respect') mixed in with a ton of misandry ('LVMs!') and girlbossing ('queens!').