As long as you are a man, you don't care about how women react to you and your achievements. If not, well, you wouldn't be successful and hard working any way
The Incentives to Work Hard for Single Men Are Rapidly Diminishing
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Kids: you waste your time on dates that aren't going anywhere.
Exchange pleasantries at the end of your tinder-matched coffee date, if she's not into it, split the bill and leave. Don't ever look her up or think about her again.
You're going to go through this several dozen times before someone completely different takes your breathe away. Steel yourself in the meantime.
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I'm not sure heterosexual pair bonding makes sense anymore. I suspect in the next twenty years we will transition to lesbianism for women and corn and AI waifus for men, with high performing males being paid large sums to donate their seed to lesbian couple.
The majority of men have nothing in common with the majority of women. Heterosexual relationships only really made sense when the woman had to depend on the man for income.
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I see a lot of posts like this yet little objective data to back it up. The theory goes that women are much more picky now, much more looks focused, and that therefore the typical guy has a much harder time finding a partner, and therefore that typical guy has no incentives to work hard and therefore society is going to collapse.
But this just isn't true. The academic JM for instance is extremely competitive and there is no correlation between being a top JM candidate and having sexual success/being attractive etc. So it seems the ugly guys are still working hard, at least in academia.
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It takes a few years for people to fully recognize and respond to a change in incentives.
I see a lot of posts like this yet little objective data to back it up. The theory goes that women are much more picky now, much more looks focused, and that therefore the typical guy has a much harder time finding a partner, and therefore that typical guy has no incentives to work hard and therefore society is going to collapse.
But this just isn't true. The academic JM for instance is extremely competitive and there is no correlation between being a top JM candidate and having sexual success/being attractive etc. So it seems the ugly guys are still working hard, at least in academia. -
The academic JM for instance is extremely competitive and there is no correlation between being a top JM candidate and having sexual success/being attractive etc. So it seems the ugly guys are still working hard, at least in academia.
Academia is the exception. Ugly weird guys still work hard because they enjoy research and freedom that comes with it.
No single ugly dude is going to work hard in an office space type job if he doesn’t have a family to provide for.
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this is really true. The majority of men have nothing in common with women but women want "friends" as partners which is totally ridiculous.
I'm not sure heterosexual pair bonding makes sense anymore. I suspect in the next twenty years we will transition to lesbianism for women and corn and AI waifus for men, with high performing males being paid large sums to donate their seed to lesbian couple.
The majority of men have nothing in common with the majority of women. Heterosexual relationships only really made sense when the woman had to depend on the man for income.
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Kids: you waste your time on dates that aren't going anywhere.
Exchange pleasantries at the end of your tinder-matched coffee date, if she's not into it, split the bill and leave. Don't ever look her up or think about her again.
You're going to go through this several dozen times before someone completely different takes your breathe away. Steel yourself in the meantime.The average dork is not getting several dozen dates though.
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If you are a man who wants to be with a woman you need to care about how women react.
You have it exactly backwards, my son.
This is true. The key to success in dating is actually not caring about the outcome or how the women react or think. If you can achieve this (which is akin to enlightenment), you'll be God-mode in the dating market.
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The academic JM for instance is extremely competitive and there is no correlation between being a top JM candidate and having sexual success/being attractive etc. So it seems the ugly guys are still working hard, at least in academia.
Academia is the exception. Ugly weird guys still work hard because they enjoy research and freedom that comes with it.
No single ugly dude is going to work hard in an office space type job if he doesn’t have a family to provide for.As an ugly weird happily married guy, yes.