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1. Economist
   46ff
   

   Guys was does it usually mean, when a girl says, I am really close to you, and like you...blah blah....all that nice stuff you say to someone when you are attracted to them.
   BUT, she follows that with, I am just not ready for a relationship yet, given I need time to get over my last relationship/ex. (i.e stuff like that, I am cutting it short). The last relationship was over months ago.

   I don't want to push, thats really not me, but don't want to wait too long hoping for things to happen.
   Does this usually mean yes or no? or 50/50 perhaps? Any thoughts?, specially from females.

   Thanks,

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2. Economist
   cb36
   

   It means you are deep in the friend zone with no possibility of exit.

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3. Economist
   8c96
   

   The F word = no good. It means you're going to have to get her drunk 'n' cuddly and then do something to get her hot... and even that might not work. Busting out of the local friend maximum is tough.

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4. Economist
   98e9
   

   it's pretty obvious to me that it means NO.

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5. Economist
   ea8e
   

   Sorry to disappoint you bro, but it means no.

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6. Economist
   dc76
   

   Women need to feel wanted, they feel that you need to fight for them. If she says that you are a good guy etc AND you think she really means it then you do have a chance.
   At this point stop being passive and being just a good listener. Flirt with her, show her that you want her, ie make your feelings clear. In the meantime, take good care of yourself, dress well, work out maybe etc, show you can both increase your confidence and show her that you are a good deal.
   Don't be too pushy though because she should know that you won't be there for ever. You will be together in no time.

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7. Economist
   dc76
   

   ^*so* you can both increase

   Sorry about that

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8. Economist
   2a55
   

   ^Very naive advice. She is just not interested in you in *that* way, sorry.

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9. Economist
   dc76
   

   ^If there are some warm feelings (friendship, affection, whatever) between a woman and a man, it's very easy to turn them into passion, lust and/or love. It has happened to me way more than once.

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10. Economist
    5610
    

    female here: it means no...she's not into you in that way

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11. Economist
    46ff
    

    I already take care of myself and work out a lot. I think 610c and some others are probably right. The problem is, everytime I hang out with her, I kind of like her a bit more everytime, so I really don't wana put myself in that position.
    I guess I agree with 610c, a8e0 and others, cause I don't think its about what I can do. Its not about me, she's had a hard time getting over her ex, and specially getting over she got dumped. Anyways, I think I am going to move on.
    Thanks guys,

    Women need to feel wanted, they feel that you need to fight for them. If she says that you are a good guy etc AND you think she really means it then you do have a chance.
    At this point stop being passive and being just a good listener. Flirt with her, show her that you want her, ie make your feelings clear. In the meantime, take good care of yourself, dress well, work out maybe etc, show you can both increase your confidence and show her that you are a good deal.
    Don't be too pushy though because she should know that you won't be there for ever. You will be together in no time.

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