you are jealous
Is that a new H index?
LuYi has 20 papers in top 20 journals
who is luyi? i only know people with pubs in top 3 or 5.
you sre Luyi
What is going on with Tsinghua SEM?
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many financially successful Chinese woman ended up cash cow of their white husband. different day, same story.
I thought you were given visitation rights, but after a few weeks, you just stopped visiting. And then you left and married someone else, but now you’re both poor, so you keep trying to find ways to get money from MO. Correct me if I’m wrong. Just stick to the facts. Your sob story is not necessary.
I correct myself, please ask her if she supports Annabelle to have normal contact with her father
Annabelle is my daughter and I must set the record straight. I saw my precious girl suffer in front of my eyes because she was ripped away from me out of an act of revenge. Annabelle was used as a tool and bargaining chip and not treated with basic humanity. She is a lovely child and now she has deep scars that only get deeper the longer she is separated from me. I am not allowed regular contact with Annabelle and this is against the law in China. But Chinese courts are incompetent to help me. Many children in China suffer because the law is too weak. For the sake of the children, I ask you to demand basic rights for children, which include the right to freely associate with loving parents. When you see Min, then please ask her if Annabelle has seen her father lately.
Please, do not drag Min\'s cute and lovely little daughter into this mess. I have been enjoying Anna\'s pictures and videos of piano playing Min posted on her WeChat every day. The little girl is so smart, beautiful, and apparently loved by many people. Min is giving her very good education. The student husband, as far as I know, is not a good person. Min divorced him because he cheated, and he cannot deal with the loss. He has been making false accusations in China and in the US everywhere. He wants to get the Child custody so Min can provide for him for the rest of his life. He failed in court repeatedly. As for Tsinghua SEM, the school is simply a mess. Blame the deans and all those with power. They destroyed the econ department so they can stay in power.
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He will be kicked out. Bai Chong'en and Liu Xiao won't let him pass.
True你妹，郑老师稳得很。
100% true
Jie Zheng will be kicked out even if he publishes enough. Wait and see.
Jie Zheng is a nice person and hard working scholar. I think he lacks some fortunate to have more decent publications. Anyway, I think THU should tenure him.
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The record shows that money was never my priority. I would not even ask for money if Anna lived with me. I just want this child to live a normal life, and feel the love of both parents. Is there anyone out there who would want less than this basic standard for their own child?
Facts
Fact - I have struggled just to make phone contact with Annabelle Zengyao Ouyang 安娜欧阳. I cannot contact her except a couple of times a year with some years having zero success. If I cannot even speak to her then there is no credibility that I could physically visit her?
Fact - visitation agreements were broken prior to me leaving China.
Fact - threats were made and multiple real actions taken to get me kicked out of China, apparently so that OYM can say “come visit her, I am not blocking you”. The record is extremely consistent that this was the clear objective since 2016.
Fact - Fighting over a child is damaging to the child. If you are reading this and in the middle of a divorce then let this example convince you to put your child above any bitterness you might have against your partner. Give a child real love and I promise it will reflect back to you in a priceless way. Deny a child this love and you deny yourself the real love in the long run.
Fact - OYM needs your positive encouragement to do the right thing for Anna. There is no need to attack OYM so please do not. And also do not be silent either. Give positive direction. OYM clearly struggles and that is human. We can recognize someone’s actions as being wrong without attacking the person herself.
Fact - parental child abduction is not recognized or enforced in China. Courts say “it is a family matter” and fail to enforce visitation agreements. The Chinese legal system is broken in this way and many Chinese children suffer as a result. The negative effects of parental estrangement will become an increasing social problem in China as divorce rates rise. Children need better legal protections in China. Hope CCP can correct this issue. They should, for their own benefit because social disorder threatens the CCP and lack of Child Rights is a clear source of social disorder.
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Fact - I met many parents in China who are estranged from their children because of lack of legal enforcement. Parental Child Abduction is a prevalent social problem in China. The weakness of rule-of-law is the single biggest reason why China is feeling global headwinds. Don’t we all recognize this is the main reason we have this trade war? It is incorrect for the CCP to say this is a domestic issue and foreigners should be silent. Global leadership is fundamentally tied to an ability to set appropriate international laws that protect Rights as a primary function. Those countries who lack an ability to protect Rights simply have no business leading this world
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things work strangely in China
Fact - I met many parents in China who are estranged from their children because of lack of legal enforcement. Parental Child Abduction is a prevalent social problem in China. The weakness of rule-of-law is the single biggest reason why China is feeling global headwinds. Don’t we all recognize this is the main reason we have this trade war? It is incorrect for the CCP to say this is a domestic issue and foreigners should be silent. Global leadership is fundamentally tied to an ability to set appropriate international laws that protect Rights as a primary function. Those countries who lack an ability to protect Rights simply have no business leading this world
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crying in econ rumor does not help, write an email to OYM's colleagues. Peer pressure works.
Your baba Matthew Kidder loves you Anna 安娜欧阳. If you see Anna then please let her know this because I am blocked from telling her myself. Tell her my name because she does not know it.
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Firstly, the main purpose of the message is mainly to leave bread crumbs for my daughter to find me one day, which is what I have come to peace with in terms of likely outcomes.
Secondly, this is a real-life example of why institutions matter and what caused the US-China trade war. Yes, it was not my daughter specifically, but rather a more general lack of rule-of-law that caused so many companies to get abused, which caused the war. This is an incredibly relevant forum for this topic.
Thirdly, staff at Tsinghua have blatantly violated Chinese law in this case and so this specific forum is also relevant for this reason.
Fourthly, peer pressure from within Tsinghua is not nearly as effective as you might imagine unless this is a real issue for Tsinghua itself. What is a better way than to keep the issue alive in the public eye? If you have a suggestion then I am all ears but I have no interest to harass her colleagues.
crying in econ rumor does not help, write an email to OYM's colleagues. Peer pressure works.
Your baba Matthew Kidder loves you Anna 安娜欧阳. If you see Anna then please let her know this because I am blocked from telling her myself. Tell her my name because she does not know it.
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I feel that your reasoning is on track although I believe that this has much more to do with the legal system than culture. Consider that the expected value of cooperating can be infinitely negative, where there is some probability that cooperation leads to infinite negative utility. No legal protection leads to an all-or-nothing tooth-and-nail fighting doggy-dog outcome. "Winner take all" games end up with everyone being a loser in the case of family matters when there is not any cooperation.
Also, I don't understand how getting married again can make a child's issue with a parent disappear. Secure attachments are formed in early childhood. Break these and the child will likely face challenges making secure, loving attachments later in life. I'm talking about attachment theory in child Developmental Psychology.
Solution: The divorced couple can get married again so that the child issue automatically disappears.
Reason: in the Chinese culture, it is almost impossible that a divorced couple can peacefully raise their child together