I will never love any woman as much as my first dog, he was so fuzzy and fun
Worst part of getting married in 30s: You won't be the love of someone's life
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Reminder: women are the source of hyp0crisy
I can never tell for sure it these posters are female or soyjacks. If the former, it’s just laughable. Western women haven’t struggled for a thing their whole coddled lives
the same also applies to western men. compared to other types, you are also coddled. that's why you are so d3pressed and care to comment on this trifling stuff.
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Reminder: women are the source of hyp0crisy
I can never tell for sure it these posters are female or soyjacks. If the former, it’s just laughable. Western women haven’t struggled for a thing their whole coddled lives
the same also applies to western men. compared to other types, you are also coddled. that's why you are so d3pressed and care to comment on this trifling stuff.
No, actually, the same does not apply. The coddling of the women comes at the expense of the men. It's zero sum.
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This absolutely true, Got a friend living this and man every single OP's word are literally my friend's life.
You will always be just best of what's left for her. There are no great memories from your formative years together. No lifelong ties that bind you together. You were "good enough" based on the constraints of a smaller dating pool and a ticking biological clock. And that's it.
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^This.
A marriage is a partnership. It's sharing a life, and experiencing hardship, and working together to raise children. It's not the kind of romantic soulfire people experience when they fall in love; it's both more boring and more powerful. You really just have no idea how special it is until you've done it.
The person I think of from my youth as the "love of my life" was beautiful, insane and passionate, and I still can't think of them without feeling a bit of twinge. We were so addicted to each other for a time there was nothing else in my life. It was beautiful and strange and terrifying all at once.
That's not the kind of love to build a marriage and a family on. It inevitably flares out and dies. If you want a to have stable family life (and it's really ok not to), just go for someone kind. Someone who makes you laugh, and will always have your back. If you're going to spend decades with a person, it's important that you can be with them all the time.is it not possible to have both passionate love and commitment with the same person?
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^This.
A marriage is a partnership. It's sharing a life, and experiencing hardship, and working together to raise children. It's not the kind of romantic soulfire people experience when they fall in love; it's both more boring and more powerful. You really just have no idea how special it is until you've done it.
The person I think of from my youth as the "love of my life" was beautiful, insane and passionate, and I still can't think of them without feeling a bit of twinge. We were so addicted to each other for a time there was nothing else in my life. It was beautiful and strange and terrifying all at once.
That's not the kind of love to build a marriage and a family on. It inevitably flares out and dies. If you want a to have stable family life (and it's really ok not to), just go for someone kind. Someone who makes you laugh, and will always have your back. If you're going to spend decades with a person, it's important that you can be with them all the time.is it not possible to have both passionate love and commitment with the same person?
It's easier to find a purple
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^This.
A marriage is a partnership. It's sharing a life, and experiencing hardship, and working together to raise children. It's not the kind of romantic soulfire people experience when they fall in love; it's both more boring and more powerful. You really just have no idea how special it is until you've done it.
The person I think of from my youth as the "love of my life" was beautiful, insane and passionate, and I still can't think of them without feeling a bit of twinge. We were so addicted to each other for a time there was nothing else in my life. It was beautiful and strange and terrifying all at once.
That's not the kind of love to build a marriage and a family on. It inevitably flares out and dies. If you want a to have stable family life (and it's really ok not to), just go for someone kind. Someone who makes you laugh, and will always have your back. If you're going to spend decades with a person, it's important that you can be with them all the time.is it not possible to have both passionate love and commitment with the same person?
It's easier to find a purple unicorn!
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sure, bro.
another in/c/el thread full of rationalization of failure with women: "oh dont bother finding luv at 32!" ljl.
You’re the one rationalizing, actually
For the first time in your life, you think you’ve found someone ‘lower’ than you. We get it. Last place aversion is a thing
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Responsibilities come first in 30-40s. But, once kids grow up a bit, there’s a great opportunity to set free both parties and you can look for a better partner and soulmate that will make your remains life great. Marriage shouldn’t be a cage. It should be a great partnership that can last and can opt not to last as well.
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Reminder: women are the source of hyp0crisy
I can never tell for sure it these posters are female or soyjacks. If the former, it’s just laughable. Western women haven’t struggled for a thing their whole coddled lives
the same also applies to western men. compared to other types, you are also coddled. that's why you are so d3pressed and care to comment on this trifling stuff.
No, actually, the same does not apply. The coddling of the women comes at the expense of the men. It's zero sum.
try being a pajeet or a zhang lmao. although you are not playing life on training wheel mode as in western women, you are still playing it on easy mode.
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OP is wrong and must be young. Without the maturity and life experiences i gathered in my 20s I wouldve never been able to meet my wife at 32. Also, 30s is still quite young. My wife is 10 years younger though and highly mature / intelligent for her age. Were 36 and 26 now.
Lmao stop with this propaganda.
Who on an Econ forum both (1) makes enough to support a three person household in their 30s, and (2) lives in an area where white women want to get married in their 20s.
Pure fantasy.What are you yammering about? I make plenty of money in a 2 person household. Live in Chicago. Literally thousands of 20 something women looking for a long term mate.
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OP is wrong and must be young. Without the maturity and life experiences i gathered in my 20s I wouldve never been able to meet my wife at 32. Also, 30s is still quite young. My wife is 10 years younger though and highly mature / intelligent for her age. Were 36 and 26 now.
Lmao stop with this propaganda.
Who on an Econ forum both (1) makes enough to support a three person household in their 30s, and (2) lives in an area where white women want to get married in their 20s.
Pure fantasy.What are you yammering about? I make plenty of money in a 2 person household. Live in Chicago. Literally thousands of 20 something women looking for a long term mate.
Ah, so your wife is Midwestern/f@t. There’s the rub.
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OP is wrong and must be young. Without the maturity and life experiences i gathered in my 20s I wouldve never been able to meet my wife at 32. Also, 30s is still quite young. My wife is 10 years younger though and highly mature / intelligent for her age. Were 36 and 26 now.
Lmao stop with this propaganda.
Who on an Econ forum both (1) makes enough to support a three person household in their 30s, and (2) lives in an area where white women want to get married in their 20s.
Pure fantasy.What are you yammering about? I make plenty of money in a 2 person household. Live in Chicago. Literally thousands of 20 something women looking for a long term mate.
Ah, so your wife is Midwestern/f@t. There’s the rub.
Gah, you in/sels are insufferable. Anything that doesn’t reinforce your world view gets devalued or disregarded.